Charles F. Stanley 
How To Keep Your Kids On The Team 

It’s not what you think that will impact your child; it’s what you communicate. Charles Stanley focuses on the parental role as one of stewardship rather than ownership. As a parent, you have a stewardship entrusted to you, and are responsible to God for your actions toward your children. To keep your children on your team, you must assure them from the beginning that you are on theirs.