Shaunti Feldhahn & Dr. Michael Sytsma 
Secrets of Sex and Marriage 
8 Surprises That Make All the Difference

"I highly recommend this insightful book to all married couples."–GARY CHAPMAN, Ph D, author of The 5 Love Languages Let’s Talk about Sex Most people are curious about sex and would love a few answers. "Are we normal?" "Why isn’t my spouse as interested in sex as I am?" "I don’t want to feel pressured, but don’t want to disappoint my spouse either–what do I do?" "How do we handle the impact of medication, menopause, porn, ED, pain . . . ?" Most importantly: "How can we get on the same page and create a thriving intimate life?"Sex is one of the most common marriage issues (for example, almost 80% of couples are mismatched in how often they want it), but it doesn’t have to be that way.Relationship researcher Shaunti Feldhahn and renowned sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma have identified eight simple, transformational factors to help you move from disconnection to delight. This is knowledge you can trust, based on vast clinical experience and their breakthrough research, including the largest nationally representative study ever conducted with married couples about sex. This book is not a "sex manual"; it is a fascinating, practical field guide that will help you intimately understand your spouse and create the marriage you’ve always wanted.