Suzannah Weiss 
Subjectified 
Becoming a Sexual Subject

Subjectified is a book about subjects, objects, and verbs. It is also a book about clothing-optional resorts, group masturbation circles, and sex parties.

Suzannah Weiss takes the reader through her adventures as a sex and relationship writer to explore how we can create a world with less objectification and more subjectification — placing women and other marginalized groups in the subject role of sentences and actions. Offering a deeply personal account and powerful critique of sexual empowerment movements, Suzannah Weiss presents a way forward that focuses more on what women desire, and less on what men desire from them. She makes a bold yet compassionate call for women everywhere to inhabit their bodies and hearts — to remain connected to their inner eye and their inner 'I, ’ even in a world where they are disproportionately 'you, ’ 'she, ’ or 'them.’

The book is for everybody wanting to understand themselves better as subjects. Wholeheartedly, the author invites you to follow her search for subjecthood and, should you desire, forge your own path out of objecthood.

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Preface

* I Walk: My Path out of Objecthood

* I Feel: My Body’s Size Doesn’t Matter Because I Have a Big Heart

* I Reveal: Freeing the Person Behind the Nipple

* I Look: Reclaiming the Dick Pic

* I Ask: From Consent to Desire

* I Create: My Body, My Voice

* I Want: Why Buy the Cow When You Can Both Be Free?

* I Touch: Feeling Myself, the Other

* I Define: Embody Your Divine Self

* I Bleed: A Girl Becomes an Object Becomes a Subject

* I Grow: The Politics of Pubes

* I Care: Sexual Empowerment Sells

* I Receive: Sex Work as Play

* I Like: You’re Just Not That Into Them

* I Write: Inhabiting the Active Voice

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O autorze

Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles.